Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Goodbye, Goopy Eyes

Since birth, Elliott has had goopy eyes as the result of blocked tear ducts.  At each checkup, his pediatricians told us that many kids outgrow this by the one year mark and that they would refer us to an opthamologist if he did not.  His eyes would be good some days and bad others.  They were an indicator of a coming cold, ear infection, or new tooth.  But they were also a pain.  Lots of wiping, cleaning, and hot compresses.  Well, Elliott's first birthday came and went without any real change.

We saw the opthamologist a couple of weeks ago and they had an opening for the procedure five days later.  Since we knew Jesse would be home and had no reason to delay it, we went to Children's Hospital at 6:30 last Tuesday morning for the quick surgery.  We were most nervous about the pre-surgery fasting.  Elliott dictates when he eats.  The first thing he does when he wakes up in the morning is eat some mama milk.  The night before we went in, he ate a huge dinner.  And then drank a lot of milk.  And then had more milk.  And then got in his crib and promptly threw up most of it.  Such is life.

Jesse set an alarm and got up to feed Elliott a bottle at 2:30 am, the last time we were allowed to feed him before the procedure start time.  When the alarms went off at 5 am, I asked Jesse if he had fed him the bottle (guess I slept soundly that night!).  We went to the hospital and Elliott was in great spirits.  He was smiling and making friends.  The area where we were was just for other little kids having the same procedure.  Just a bunch of goopy eyed kids playing together.  Children's is great.  They are so focused on kids - toys everywhere, friendly staff who are great with the kids and good at calming parents too.

Elliott made another little friend in the hospital who was only one week younger.  They had fun playing in the waiting room together and then continued to play in our shared room.  Side note: when I was getting ready to move from labor and delivery to the maternity floor, the thought of a shared room was terrifying.  When you're talking about a 14 month old waiting for a minor procedure, a shared room with a little friend is a treat!  They played with each other most of the time.

Elliott was patient #2 of the morning, after his roommate.  We went into the room while they put him under.  The procedure itself is only a couple of minutes so it does not require IV anesthetic.  But, any general anesthetic is scary so we were a bit nervous. The doctor went down the tear ducts at the inner corner of Elliott's eyes and down into his nasal passage with a flexible metal probe.  He then brought another probe up through the nasal passage to meet it to make sure he cleared the blockage.  The whole process took about 3 minutes.  From there he went into recovery until he woke up about 10 minutes later.  He was groggy at first but after 20 minutes, he wanted to get up and play.  We held him close until he was walking steadily and then were discharged.  Elliott spent the rest of the day at home and went back to school the following day like nothing had happened.  Here are some pictures of our little trooper at the hospital.

The little pink hospital gown was really cute (but only cute because he's not actually sick).



Elliott with his little friend, waiting for their procedure.


Elliott loved playing with the industrial cribs in the room.


We're so relieved that the procedure went off without a hitch!
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Sunday, November 25, 2012

Where's Elliott?

Elliott really enjoys playing hide and seek.  We ask, "where's Elliott?" and he covers his eyes and then moves his hands and smiles.  We play in the car mirrors too.  It's made more fun with a prop.  Here is a video of Jesse and Elliott playing with a kitchen towel the other night.  I love hearing his laugh!  We were entertained by how long he would sit with the towel on his head before removing it and handing it back to Jesse to do it again.


Thursday, November 22, 2012

Things To Be Thankful For

Today is that special day of the year when we reflect on our lives, give thanks for what we have, and recognize those less fortunate.  I am a lucky girl.  I have many, many things to be thankful for.  In no particular order, I am thankful for:

A cozy place to call home (it has a long way to go but it is home).
Wonderful friends - new friends, old friends, near and far.
Cell phones, email, skype, and this blog for allowing us to keep in touch with those who don't live nearby.
Airplanes for letting us go visit those dear to us but far from us.
A 50 degree Thanksgiving Day - but I do want snow this year!
My health.  At 30, I feel healthier and more fit than I did at 29 and certainly than at 20.
The health of my family and friends.
Five cancer-free years for my Dad.
My immediate family for loving me unconditionally (I hope!).
My siblings for actually being my friends and especially my sister for talking to me on the phone everyday on my way to work.
My extended family for always being supportive of one another and for making family gathering events to look forward to.
Jesse's family for welcoming me with open arms.
My wonderful red-headed nephews and my soon to be niece or nephew who will arrive in a few weeks.
My wonderful husband for making me feel warm, fuzzy, and loved.  And for putting Elliott down for a nap when I fail.
Elliott for making me what I always wanted to be, a mom, and what Jesse and I wanted to have together, a family.  He brings me more joy than I knew possible and each day just keeps getting better.

My little copilot on my run this morning.  I am thankful for those cheeks!
 
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Wednesday, November 21, 2012

First Legos (AKA "Drums")

There is a hilarious story often told in my family of my father and his siblings when they were young at Christmastime one year.  When discussing what to get their mother for Christmas, my father suggested a drum set.  His older brother John responded, "but Mom doesn't play the drums."  My Dad rebutted with, "that's 'cause she hasn't got any."  It doesn't take long to see that my Dad really wanted drums.  So, in our house, "drums" is a euphemism for a gift you get for someone else because you want it for yourself, or at least to share in the fun.

Elliott received some gift certificates for Toys R Us for his birthday and we finally made it over to pick out some new toys.  What an overwhelming place!  Elliott thought it was great.  He wandered the aisles with a wide smile.  Jesse and Elliott lit up when we looked at Legos.  Well, Jesse's eyes certainly lit up, just as Robert's had at the thought of drums.  He really enjoyed playing with Legos as a kid and was/is excited for Elliott to have the same experience.  Here are some pictures of them playing together.

Daddy's little helper



Maybe Elliott will start helping with the house construction too!  I think we're a long way off from that.


Helping put a piece on.


I love the look of concentration.


We're all enjoying the Legos.  I worked on building some things this evening with Elliott helping take it apart as I went.  Thanks to Uncle John, Aunt Debbie, and Grandma Shirley for the gift!
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Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Saturday Wagon Ride

While I went to the gym on Saturday morning, Jesse and Elliott worked out in the woods.  Elliott rode in the wagon and helped pick up sticks.  I came home shortly before they arrived back at the house in the wagon and we had fun playing outside.  The light was wonderful and the boy was in great spirits.  Warning: lots of pictures ahead . . .

Elliott loves sitting on anything and everything these days.



Big smile


Curious eyebrows


Bringing Daddy his gloves


Here, Daddy.


He sat on the handle of his wagon for a while.


Then started climbing in


Almost there


Success!


Checking out the descend


Climbing out


Almost there


Done!  According to Elliott, everything can be climbed.


On the move!


This picture reminds me of Wyatt over at Little Boy Brown.


Pushing his wagon around the driveway


And off into the woods for some off roading
 
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Sunday, November 18, 2012

Indian Summer Hike

We've had a stint of warm temperatures over the past week, allowing for unexpected outdoor time.  Last Sunday, we went down to Ellicottville for a hike and day of play.

Happy boy on his favorite perch


Trying to eject


I get a lot of action shots when Elliott starts running for the camera.


Elliott is very interested in water bottles these days.  That's Abe with him, striking a pose.


Another action shot


This picture cracks me up.  Part innocent toddler on a big wheel, part easy rider cruising the street (or tennis court).
 
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Thursday, November 15, 2012

First Haircut

Elliott had slowly been growing the typical one year old mullet - short up top, long in back.  We kept saying, "we really need to cut that," but never found the time (and his baby hair is so cute!).  So, on Sunday morning, Elliott had his first haircut.  What does it take to cut his hair?  Two parents and Feist singing with Sesame Street on the iPad.  This is Elliott's favorite video - it lulls him into contentment while we use the nebulizer, cut his nails, cut his hair.  And, it doesn't drive us crazy.  In short, it is amazing.

Watching Feist.  During the haircut, he sat on the stool like a big boy.


We left that cute fluffy hair on the top.


Cleaned up in the back. Mullet no more!
 
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Sunday, November 11, 2012

After Dinner Play

Elliott is quite the character these days.  We are constantly amazed and amused by him.  He has gone from a baby to a little person with a huge personality.  We enjoyed fun after dinner playtime the other night.

Hi Mama!



He was pushing this toy box all around the house.


Boom!  He is a graceful faller when he falls on his bum.  Forward falls?  Sometimes not so graceful.


Daddy! Why are you sitting on my dinosaur?


Let's sit together.


I like it better on your lap.


My boys!


Elliott has taken to standing on anything and everything . . . hence the tumbles.


Big smiles


That cute head tuck?  That is a full body laugh.


I love my kid.
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